Monday 9 July 2018

Gender is not just a social construct.

  Both biology and society influence gender  

Many Transgender related web pages have outdated descriptions of what gender is. We read BC Trans Care basics and it says: "Gender is socially constructed, things we do and how we behave....."  That is known to be entirely wrong!  I sent an e-mail to BC Trans Care around 4 years ago about it, to suggest they preclude the statement with clear info about partial inclusion of pre-natal and natal gender indicators and behavior traits of children which comes naturally.  This is how we determine who is Transgender and so we can be safe to determine who is CIS gender.  At time  of writing the letter to change Health Authority Trans information about the gender meaning, I did have only one case to prove the point. It was well documented Reimer Case decades ago where it was determined that gender identity is permanently "programmed" in person's brain.  Many scientific and peer reviewed studies are out at this time with latest and highly reliable one presented down below. I am using this particular one to convince BC Health Authority to change their incorrect information.

ARE UNIVERSITIES TEACHING Theory of Flat Earth?

We are aware that a lot of staff working in Trans Information Program and BC Trans Care are well educated graduates of SFU, UViC , UBC and other Universities, many members got their diplomas for studies of Gender and Women's curriculum.  We also know that topics of those studies consist of great part of teachings on subjects of feminism and related gender issues in society with focusing on subjects about gender basics as social construct. It appears that Universities are teaching and mixing political ideologies with social and biological science. Result is incomplete information is presented to future professionals, which taunt-amount to similarity with teaching about our Earth being flat.  I strongly urge professors responsible for Social, Gender and Women's studies to update themselves with latest proofs of theories about gender as innate biological basis.  

 

Entire article about Gender basis reprinted from Quatz : 

 Both biology and society influence gender (Maykah)

When my colleague Corinne Purtill bought her doll-loving daughter an engineering kit, she had to laugh when the then-three-year-old used the present as a hairbrush. For all Corinne’s efforts at gender-neutral parenting, her daughter clearly enjoyed some traditionally feminine toys.
A study published (paywall) in November 2017 suggests that these sorts of girly toy preferences aren’t simply a reflection of gendered social pressures. A meta-analysis of research, reviewing 16 studies on the subject that collectively included some 1,600 children, found that both biology and society affect boys’ and girls’ toy choices. The researchers found a huge effect size (1.03 for boys playing with boys’ toys more than girls, and 0.9 for girls playing with girls toys more than boys; anything above 0.8 is considered “large”) across geographical regions.

“The size of sex differences in children’s preferences for male-typed and female-typed toys did not appear to be smaller in studies conducted in more egalitarian countries,” says Brenda Todd, a study co-author and senior lecturer in psychology at City University London. Countries rating extremely low on the Gender Inequality Index, such as Sweden, showed similar differences in toy preferences to countries with far greater gender inequality, such as Hungary and the United States.
This runs counter to the popular narrative that gender differences expressed in childhood play are determined entirely by social expectations. Social factors certainly do have influence, and the paper found evidence of this: For example, as boys got older they were increasingly likely to play with conventionally male toys, reflecting the impact of environmental rather than biological causes. But overall, the data reflect broader findings in psychology, which show that biology and society interact to cause gendered behavior. In other words, contrary to the popular progressive belief, gender is partly socially constructed—but it’s not just a social construct.

 “The ‘nature versus nurture’ idea is a false dichotomy” “The ‘nature versus nurture’ idea is a false dichotomy,” says Sean Stevens, social psychologist and research director at Heterodox Academy, an organization of professors focused on promoting political diversity in academia. “I don’t know any real researcher of human behavior who would say it’s all nature or all nurture,” he adds.
Despite this empirical truth, researchers who study the biological basis of gender often face political pushback. “Many people are uncomfortable with the idea that gender is not purely a social construct,” says Todd, who notes that her work has faced “very critical attention.” There’s a political preference—especially on the left—Todd believes, for gender to be only a reflection of social factors and so entirely malleable.

Evidence that gender has some basis in biology, though, in no way implies a strict gender binary, nor negates the existence of transgender and non-binary identities. Many biology-based gender differences originate from the hormonal environment within the womb, which is very different on average for boys compared to girls. But there’s a huge variation in these environments, says Alice Eagly, psychology professor at Northwestern University. “Within boys there will be a range and within girls there will be a range. To say it’s biological doesn’t mean it’s perfectly binary,” she says.


The findings of this and other studies suggest biology influences gendered behavior. It remains unclear how large these differences are—regardless of whether they’re caused by social or biological factors. Janet Hyde, a psychology and women’s studies professor at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, has conducted several meta-analyses on the subject, and found relatively small behavioral, intelligence, and personality differences between genders. (The biggest difference she found was in incidence of masturbation.) Certainly the differences are not as stark as those reinforced by gendered cultural norms, and do not reinforce old-fashioned stereotypes about men being inherently better at math and more angry or arrogant than women. Differences that do exist, though, whether caused by social or biological factors, deserved to be studied from a scientific perspective rather than ignored for the sake of a political narrative.

Broadly speaking, there’s far too little specific evidence on what gender differences are influenced by biology to extrapolate into justified policy for any company or industry. And, the evidence for a biological basis for gender certainly doesn’t mean we should be complacent in the face of sexism; society and culture, too have a massive effect on gender. Neurogeneticist Kevin Mitchell neatly sums up this argument in a tweet:


Since a couple people have asked my opinion, this is where I think the science stands on sex differences in psychological traits + what the implications are:
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 Eagly argues that policy should not influence science. “Science strives for valid findings, the truth of the findings, regardless of whether you like them or I like them. We strive to find out how the biology of people works. Would we close our minds as scientists because it might be politically incorrect?,” she says. How the evidence could influence policy is not up to her, she adds. “I’m not a social policy expert,” says Eagly.

  “Science strives for valid findings, the truth of the findings, regardless of whether you like them or I like them.” That said, these scientific findings can certainly be used to positive effect. “If we have a better understanding of how biology impacts the developing brain, we might be better able to tailor educational practices to specific students,” says Stevens. In other words, nurture can be manipulated so that it more effectively interacts with nature to develop particular skills. If we ignore biology, says Stevens, “we’re not acknowledging that there might be another factor impacting things and then we wonder why things aren’t as effective.”

So what does the biology of gender mean for parents deciding whether or not to encourage their kids to play with less gender-conforming toys? Corinne’s daughter is now seven and loves Lego, science, space, fashion, art, makeup, and singing. Regardless of which of those preferences are influenced by biology and which by social factors, she’s clearly an individual rather than a reflection of a tired gender stereotype. Corinne says she’s noticed her 18-month-old son loves wrestling and climbing more than his sister did. But these differences do not affect equality in her household.

“The toys, clothes, colors, and games my kids like are their business,” she says. “What I will insist is that everyone in the house does chores equally. Everyone in the house will be raised with respect for other people and their boundaries. Both kids will be raised to be self-sufficient adults who can advocate for themselves.”

Gender may not be an entirely social construct. But the effects of biology do not confine us to traditional gender norms. And there’s no science that counters the value of gender equality.
   

Tuesday 1 April 2014

It’s Trans Day of Visibility! Here’s 15 Ways To Let Trans People Know You See Them and Care

International Trans Day of Visibility is here! This event, which happens each year on March 31st, was started by Rachel Crandall, the leader of Transgender Michigan. It exists so that we can focus on the trans people around us and the good that they do. She wanted a day that celebrated and recognized trans people who are still with us to go alongside Trans Day of Remembrance, which remembers those we lost.
I was thinking… whenever I hear about our community, it seems to be from Remembrance Day which is always so negative because it’s about people who were killed. So one night I couldn’t sleep and I decided why don’t I try to do something about that… The Day of Remembrance is exactly what it is. It remembers people who died. This focuses on the living. People have told me they love Remembrance Day but it really focuses on the negative aspect of it. Isn’t there anything that could focus on the positive aspect of being trans?
There are many ways you can celebrate Trans Day of Visibility. Some places hold live events, such as readings or appearances by trans speakers, others host parties celebrating trans people. Although the event started in Michigan, it has spread all across the USA and into Canada and the UK. On a more individual level, you can celebrate Trans Day of Visibility by paying attention to and caring about trans people and trans issues. Here are some ways that you can do just that.



1. Cheer On Trans Athletes

The playing feild is a place where people seem to fight extremely hard to defend their right to discriminate agaisnt trans people. Although the Olympics and NCAA both have trans inclusive policies, other organizations, such as Crossfit and many state high school sports leagues aren’t as progressive. A couple examples of trans athletes you can support are MMA fighter Fallon Fox and Pat Cordova-Goff, a high school softball player, who is playing the right sport thanks to California’s new trans student rights bill.
Fallon Fox, first transgender woman to participate in MMA


2. Read Trans People’s Blogs

It’s extremely important to listen to trans people’s voices. We know what rights we want and we know the best ways to help us. One of the easiest ways to do this from your home is to read our blogs. Some blogs that you can check out include Transgriot, run by Monica Roberts, Janet Mock’s blog, and Biyuti Binaohan’s blog.

3. Support Trans People’s Projects

Trans people are constantly putting ourselves out there and accomplishing great things. However, due to discrimination in the workplace, schools and the government, trans people often could use all the help that we can get. You can support projects like the International Trans Women of Color Gathering, the Free CeCe documentary about CeCe McDonald and produced by Laverne Cox, Biyuti Publishing, which looks to publish works by marginalized people, the documenary Major! about trans pioneer Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, Trans-Genre, which supports trans artists and publishes books by trans writers or the Trans Justice Funding Project, where your money will go to a variety of trans projects.

4. Watch Movies and TV Where Trans Characters are Played by Trans Actors

In case you missed the news, cis people playing trans characters not only takes jobs away from trans actors, but it usually relies on stereotypes and when it’s a cis man playing a trans woman, it also reinforces the idea that trans women are just men in dresses. So instead of watching Dallas Buyers’ Club or Hit and Miss, watch things like Orange is the New Black, The Fosters, Gun Hill Road, and other projects featuring trans actors and actresses like Laverne Cox, Harmony Santana, Angelica Ross, Tom Phelan, Jamie Clayton and Candis Cayne. It’s important that we have accurate portrayals of trans people, and the only way to do that is to let trans people play trans characters.
Imogen Binnie via youtube
Imogen Binnie via youtube

5. Read Books and Listen to Music by Trans People

Speaking of accurate portrayals of trans people, another way to make sure that happens is to let trans people write their own stories. You can read memoirs like Janet Mock‘s Redefining Realness, Toni Newman‘s I Rise, and Ryka Aoki‘s Seasonal Velocities. Or you can check out fiction like Imogen Binnie‘s Nevada and Choir Boy and Six Months, Three Days by Charlie Jane Anders. You can also buy and listen to music by trans artists including Angelica Ross, Kokumo, Laura Jane Grace of Against Me!, Namoli Brennet and Rae Spoon.

6. Donate to or Volunteer with Trans Organizations

Not only are there nationwide organizations like the Sylvia Rivera Law Project, The TransLatin@ Coalition and the Transgender Law Center, but many cities also have local organizations that support and provide safe spaces for trans people or trans youth.

7. Make Sure to Involve Trans Women in Women’s Spaces

This one should be a no-brainer. Trans women are women. End of sentence. Since we are women, women-only spaces, whether it’s colleges or music festivals, should clearly be open and welcoming to us.




8. Write a Letter to Your Congressperson Asking Them to Support Non-Discrimination Ordinances

Many states don’t have statewide protections for trans people in the workplace, housing and other areas. However, many cities and states are starting to pass non-discrimination ordinances that protect LGBTQ people from being fired or denied housing just because of who they are. If you want to support and protect trans people, this is a great first step that will only cost you fifteen minutes and the price of a stamp.
Reina Gosset and Janet Mock via Tumblr
Reina Gosset and Janet Mock via Tumblr

9. Support the Trans People in Your Life

Trans people are often kicked out of our houses and lose friends when we come out. It can be very lonely being trans, and knowing that you have a community around you who will invite you into their lives really does help. Trans people are fun, smart, adventurous, nerdy, funny, athletic, talented and creative. If you befriend us, more than likely, we’ll have a great time together. Although we are generally Flawless, trans people are still people. We shouldn’t be treated as if we are mythical beasts who you can only talk about and support online. Get to know trans people in real life — in authentic, non-tokenizing ways — and you’ll probably find that you have a lot in common with us.



10. Stop Saying “LGBT” When You Really Mean “Gay”

Although people are getting better at this, I still see it all the time. If you’re making a list of the “Top 10 LGBT” anything, you better have at least one trans person on there. I’m also looking at you, Netflix, with your “Gay and Lesbian” section. Boys Don’t Cry and Gun Hill Road tell neither gay nor lesbian stories. On the other side of the coin, please stop saying “gay” when you mean “LGBT.” When Janet Mock was named one of the “15 Most Powerful Gay Celebrities” in 2012, I rolled my eyes so hard I went blind for a week. Many people will talk about Gay Rights or Gay History when they are talking about things that affect and involve trans people as well. This erases the hard work they have put in and ignores the fact that without trans women of color, we wouldn’t have the LGBT rights movement as we know it today.
Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P. Johnson (far left) via Transgriot
Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P. Johnson (far left) via Transgriot

11. Learn About Trans History

Like I was saying, it was trans women of color who threw the first bricks of the “Gay Rights” movement. The first step is to learn about trans (and LGBT rights) pioneers like Sylvia Rivera, Marsha P. Johnson and Miss Major. It was them and other trans women of color like them who started the Stonewall Riots. Once you know about our modern history, you can move on to learn about gender variant people throughout history. Although the terminology might be new and it’s probably inaccurate to call anyone who crossed gender in ancient times “transgender” as they would have no concept of that as an identity, trans people are far from a modern phenomenon.
Documentary about San Francisco transwomen demonstration.


12. Stop Stressing “Sex vs. Gender”

This is often a way for cis people to try to bring some simplicity and rationality to that confusing thing that is Trans People. They say that “Gender is in your mind, and Sex is in between your legs” and think that since that makes sense to them, that is a good way to describe trans people. However, if you really listen to what you’re saying, you’re claiming that although you are okay saying that a trans woman’s gender is “woman,” her sex is still “male.” When you say that a trans woman’s sex is male, even though you call her a trans woman, you’re still misgendering her. This is a not a good way to be an ally and it makes it seem like you don’t see trans men as fully being men and trans women as fully being women. Repeatedly pointing out that sex and gender aren’t the same thing just ends up othering trans people and actually pushes them away while you’re acting like you’re including them. Saying that sex=genitals reinforces the idea that pre or non-op trans people aren’t as “real” as trans people who have had surgery. I know you’re trying to help, but this isn’t the best way to do it.
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It’s funny because all trans women are liars.

13. Listen When Trans People Tell You That Something is Transphobic or Transmisogynistic

When a trans woman complains about RuPaul’s Drag Race having an entire game named after a transmisogynistic slur, don’t try to defend it by saying that they’re drag queens, so it’s okay. Similarly, when Stephen Colbert uses transmisogynistic slurs on his show, don’t defend him by saying that it’s “just satire.” Trans people (or at least most of us) actually do have senses of humor. We love to laugh. But we don’t like to constantly be the punchline of jokes that make light of violence against us or portray us as liars who want to trick you into sleeping with us. So please, believe us, we know when we’re being insulted.

14. Check Out This List of 52 Things You Can Do for Transgender Equality

If this list isn’t enough for you, here are dozens of more ways you can show your support.

15. Love and Defend the Trans People in Your Life

Trans people are oh so valuable, and our lives are far too often cut short. Since trans women (and especially trans women of color) face so much violence and murder, and so often those crimes go unpunished, the lives of trans women are precious things. All trans people face discrimination and oppression in so many areas of society, so make sure you tell the trans people in your life that you love them. Make sure you use your actions to show them that you love them. Make sure you tell those around you that you won’t put up with oppression of or violence against trans people. Don’t laugh at transmisogynistic jokes, don’t call trans people who don’t immediately disclose their trans status liars and don’t let your friends use transmisogynist slurs. When it comes down to it, the best way to let trans people know that they are visible and important in your life is to make sure that we are safe, comfortable and able to live the lives that we want.



Thursday 16 January 2014

We are not sick!


This is about Miss Universe runner-up 2012 Jenna Talackova petition to be signed, to remove transgenderism and transsexuality from classification of mental illness.


It is really everyone's choice to sign petition, and I admit I don't like to sign too many for various reasons. One of them is, lack of information of original post, second one is lack of information about carrier publisher.  So i am genuinely afraid it is just another phishing, and my name will be endlessly proliferated on webb net whith end result of targeted advertising popping out on me in everything I want to look at later on.

There is one exception:
  Recently I am convinced to sign another one, instigated by Miss Universe top runner-up Jenna Talackova. Due to one fact which nobody likes to talk about, and that is, transgender and transsexual people suffering from gender dysphoria are still in official category of mental illness, as described in WHO. Canadian health care system has no other choice, but to follow these international standards.  There is a motion, mentioned in last Coastal Health presentation by Ms.Knudsen Team (Commissioner for gender affirmation surgeries for BC), that they are  pursuing to remove gender dysphoria diagnosed group from this stigma carrying category.  Honestly, when I think about it, I don't really know which different group it should be under instead.     Sure nobody likes to be classified into such unpopular category, but that is a today's reality and I am glad that Commission and actual leaders (in BC) involved in shaping WPATH Standards of Care, are aware of it and did mentioned it openly during their seminar in fall of 2013.

I don't envy responsibility for changes while outlining directions of care for transgender people.  Situation is complicated even more deeply by fact that there is large and ever increasing group of people who fit description of gender-nonconforming and other derivations of it.  It makes the spectrum of transgender label very wide and hard to make changes which will include everyone and will satisfy needs to all.  I am afraid that is probably not possible without some sacrifices and adjustments. Even that will be hard to do.  So here we are, sitting pretty and being labeled having "mental disorder".  





Now, back to my topic of signing petitions. By being aware of above dificulties, and also knowing that webb net petitions succeed only in rare occasions I should be against signing another one. Quite oposite. For this time I feel and think differently. I will sign Jenna Talackova's petition plea to remove label "transgender woman" and label "transgender man" from clasification of mental illness.  As Jenna says and other post-op women I know attest, we are healed and normal as rest of population of same gender. I can myself attest, that after the final move (a surgery), negative signs of dysphoria is nowhere to be found. Gone!  I am not sick!  This is my main reason I am making exception to my rules and will sign Miss Talackova's petition same as 0ver 80 tousand people did.


Friday 15 November 2013

Transgender Day of Remembrance 2013


November 20.
In Honor of transgender women who lost their lives?

Let's not forget the fact that this event was created as title above says: in honor of transgender women who lost their lives. Thanks to Laverne Cox interview on Katie Couric Show, she reminded us again that it is transgender women who are getting killed, not gender variant folks, not gender non-conforming, not queers, not any others. When we look at statistics and list of victims, that was what she mentioned, truly all people who lost their lives, of trans* community are - women. Therefore, anyone using label TRANS* in their proclamation of Remembrance Day are  really doing  nothing else but plagiarizing it, to put it gently. My personal opinion is that it outright demeaning the status of honor for which it was created in the first place. Continuing my opinion: It truly is taking away something what does not belong to anyone else, but to women.  The point is: It is a Transgender Day of Remembrance to honor women who lost their lives. Rest comes as secondary addition.

Another reason to use the original name would be as follows:  There are numerous events on net, cities, universities, groups and other social gatherings, to mark and honor Transgender Day of Remembrance. This is very special day same as any other event where part of it's content, is to mourn people who lost their life for their cause of struggle.  We have seen Remembrance Day, Canada Day, International Women’s Day etc….. as officially recognized names with it’s own traditional reminders corresponding to different causes.  Now imagine for the moment if we started to call Canada Day with All Provinces Day, that does not look right, does it?  What about War Veterans Day to be called Vet’s Day? That looses it’s honorable feel and although we can hear it this way as a ‘street’ talk, officially it is and will always be a War Veterans Day.  How about Women’s International Day, could we modernize it? Maybe like Women* International Day , eh? Did you noticed an asterrix? It may mean a new trend to include transgender women, right? .......
 It looks funny, yes, and it kinda spoiling a lustre of traditional and official name of Women’s International Day.  Now let’s take the name of Transgender Day of Remembrance.  We all know what this means from day of it’s inception in 1998. here is short quote just in case we need to remind of the true meaning:  


Quote starts ----> "Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDoR), which occurs annually on 20 November, is a day to memorialize those who have been killed as a result of transphobia, or the hatred or fear of transgender and gender non-conforming people, and acts to bring attention to the continued violence endured by the transgender community. The Transgender Day of Remembrance was founded in 1998 by Gwendolyn Ann Smith, a transgender graphic designer, columnist, and activist, to memorialize the murder of Rita Hester in Allston, Massachusetts." <-- end of quote.


So historically this day was started in remembrance of transgender woman, soon after it was footnoted explaining it does include all other groups such as gender non-conforming, queer, in short anyone who is not ok with gender assigned at birth. This footnote is short and all inclusive adding that remembrance day is also reminder of oppression and denial of rights to all inclusive groups. Now up to now all is ok, we using traditional symbolism and well recognized and respected name of Transgender Day of Remembrance.



Problem starts when we want to use word trans* in official name of this event.
I did not find any other group on www net who will not use anything else than original name for this day (see above). Today I noticed one university organizing “Trans* Day of Remembrance”.   I have nothing against usage of term trans*, I do use it regularly as a convenient short to include all groups and expressions fitting formula about gender identity. I like it and agree with what it means.  Now have a look at it in the above name for that our special day from point of view of onlookers:  it looses almost it’s meaning as many folks outside our community don’t know if we are in ‘trans’ like under influence of some religious dance, or what.  Second problem is that this day has it’s official  NAME, same as examples I show in beginning of my notes, it's tradition embedded in history  . Based on that, does it mean that this university starting another different commemorable event?  Probably not.  They could use announcement like: “ Our trans* community  will be holding a vigil in respect of  Transgender day of Remembrance”  That’s better! I am against changing the original name of this event as it already include all groups of our community and the original name carries pride of tradition and deep respect of people to whom it was dedicated in the first place. 

Wednesday 20 March 2013

We are unicorns.

Hello my dear. Alright, I did not write following essay, it is obviously written too perfectly for my poor grammar.  It is also perfect for it's content and accurate account of  my true feelings.  I could have just reference the link, but I am afraid it may disappear.  So I just reprinted it in full quote. Enjoy as I do, every sentence is as truthful as it gets.

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Reasons To Cherish Being Transsexual
    Because being transsexual is often so hurtful, so filled with sadness and longing, with shame and loss and difficulty, it is easy to come to the conclusion that the whole thing is utterly a curse, perhaps inflicted by arcane and evil ancient gods.
    Oh, probably....
    But there is an upside too.
    Most human lives are utterly mundane, devoid of any real uniqueness, the average person somnambulates through an existence devoted to filling the roles expected of them.
    But to be a transsexual is a magical, wondrous thing.
    Consider. We are given many gifts in compensation for the terrible loss of our childhood as ourselves, and for the pain we endure. We are by some as yet unknown mechanism statistically far more intelligent, as a class, than perhaps any other kind of people. We are almost universally more creative, and we often possess incredible levels of courage and self determination, demonstrated by our very survival, and ultimate attainment of our goal. We are rare as miracles, and in our own way, as magical, or so has been the belief of all ancient cultures on the earth.
    We are given awareness that others would never experience, understanding of gender, of the human condition, of society and the roles and hidden rules unquestioned within it. We are given a window into the lives of both sexes, and cannot help but be, to some degree, beyond either. From this we have a rare opportunity: to choose our own life, outside predetermined and unquestioned definition or role. We can do new things, original things, only because our experience is so unique.
    We get to be true shapeshifters, and experience the sheer wonder of melty-wax flesh and a real rebirth into the world. Our brains and bodies gain benefit from having been bathed in and altered by the hormones of both sexes. We appear to retain our visible youthfulness where others wrinkle, and for years longer. We possess neural advantages from both sexes, such as the language advantages of the feminized brain, and the spatial abilities of the masculinized brain both. We are shocked into waking up, if we allow it, to a life we create for ourselves...we are not automatically doomed to sleepwalk through life.
    After our transformations, after the full-moon lycanthropic miracle that the modern age affords us, we can live lives of success and love, and genuine specialness, if we choose. If we can get past our upbringing, past the programming, the bigotry, the messages of disgust from the culture around us, if we can stand as ourselves in freedom, then our special gifts grant us a heritage of wondrous power.
    We have a proud and marvelous history. In ancient days we were magic incarnate. We were Nadle, Winkle, Two-Souls, Shamans and healers and magical beings to our communities. We possessed the ability to give the blessings of the gods and spirits, and were prized as companions, lovers, and teachers.
    We were the prize gift of ancient tribes, entertainers, designers and dreamers. Sometimes we were the -somewhat reluctant- rulers of empires, and the consorts of emperors. We were champions and warriors too, who were feared for our unique gifts turned to inevitable victory.
    Know that it is only in recent centuries, with the rise of the single minded, monolithic and monotheistic desert religions, filled with harsh single gods and twisted, narrow morals, that our kind have become reviled, the objects of scorn. Once, we were the kin of the gods.
    To be transsexual is not easy, and it is not a birth that could be envied, but neither is it a damnation. It was once considered a rare wonder, if a mixed one; a faery gift that cuts as it blesses.
    And in the modern age, of hormones and surgery, we are the first generations of our kind to finally know the joy of complete transformation, of truly gaining our rightful bodies. No other transsexuals in history have been so fortunate.
     
    I say that we are unicorns, rare and wondrous, with still a touch of ancient magic and the kinship of the gods. Though it is agony, beyond the fire we have the opportunity to become alchemic gold.
    We have much to add to the world, and to give to ourselves and those who love us.
    We have always been, we are still the prize of the tribe, for only the world around us has changed, the desert harshness branding us vile. We are still the same.
    Our compensations are real, and our lives are special; we have but to grasp the gifts born of our sufferings.
    When I look around me at the mundane lives, there are times I think that maybe I am glad I was born transsexual, for I would never have been what I have become without that curse. I cannot help but be grateful for my uniqueness, so I am brought to a strange revelation:
    Deep down, I cherish having been born a transsexual.

     

Tuesday 19 March 2013

Mr. Anderson, clearify your reasons, please.


I am following progress of Bill C-279 as it passes through channels of the House. I read many if not all comments and speeches of supporting members of Parliament and  opposing ones as well.  The one interesting from opposition is of Mr. Anderson (Feb 27 2013). At first he goes on with reciting the obvious about basic human rights in Canada and how great it is to live in such a compassionate country. That went on for maybe like one third of his speech. Then he concludes it with the reason why we don't need special protection of transgendered folks. He also adds he will vote against this bill for couple of other reasons.  We would like to know what are those two other reasons as Mr. Anderson not elaborating as he should. One wonders what is hidden in his mind....... 

For your interest and others who think protection of transgendered people is not needed, there is a scientific study from Ontario Wilfrid Laurier University: http://transpulseproject.ca/research-type/e-bulletin/

One of the detailed documents clearly shows very high percentages of transphobia experiences and high suicide rate attempts as result.